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March 2003:
Angels
Thats
a great DVD player!
The words were coming from a man and a woman standing
behind me. I was in line getting ready to check out of the drugstore and eyeing
the stack of boxes which contained the instruments in question. A sign above proudly
displayed the price: $79.99.
It was the Tuesday before Thanksgiving. Already
the newspapers were filled with full color supplements heralding the full onslaught
of the 2002 shopping season. The latest in electronic devices were certainly among
the most prominent temptations. As a full-blooded consumer in our Consumer
Society, I felt it my patriotic duty to study these offerings with great
attention. I took special notice of the various kinds of DVD players and the various
prices they commanded.
I can honestly tell you that $79.99 was
a pretty good deal, but what about the quality? Would it be broken within the
month?
We bought the exact same player at Sams Warehouse about
two months ago for twenty dollars more continued the woman, and its
been just great!
Thats one good price! added the man.
Even
as I was wondering if the drugstore had hired these people, I had decided that
they must be telling me the truth. After all, Heaven forbid that Mordecai Miller
should be a lagging indicator. My patriotic duty lay before me. It was my turn
to be served by the cashier.
I think Id like to buy one of these
DVD players.
Her reply caught me off guard.
Theyre going
on sale this Thursday for $59.99.
I think I can wait three days,
I said. Thanks so much for telling me.
The box was respectfully
returned to its original position. I left the store having purchased what I had
originally planned.
Sure enough, that Thursday the players were selling for
$20.00 less. Im only sorry I didnt buy two!
I remember over ten
years ago visiting New York city. I took the opportunity to visit my dads
grave. I was staying with my sister in Manhattan. The Old Montefiore Cemetery
was in Queens. The visit involved catching two subways and then the bus. The subway
ride didnt phase me in the least, but I was totally unfamiliar with the
Queens bus system. I had no idea what bus I was supposed to catch, but my sister
informed me that the bus stop right near the subway station would have the right
bus.
To anyone who says that New Yorkers arent friendly to visitors,
I can only tell you that the bus driver on the very first bus I checked couldnt
have been more helpful.
Youll need a transfer, he said, punching
the ticket I was going to require. Ill let you know where to make
it and which bus you need to catch.
I climbed on board and sat as close
to him as the law would allow. I arrived at the cemetery without a hitch.
Coming
back was no problem. It turned out that it only took one bus to get back to the
subway.
The train I caught turned out to be a Local. I was rapidly
becoming familiar with every station along the line. Finally, we arrived at an
Express stop. I peered out the window and saw an Express train across
the platform. I jumped out of my seat and sprinted towards the train.
At the
very same moment a man was running down the platform. As we passed he yelled out,
That train isnt going anywhere!
I took another look and saw
that there wasnt a soul on board the Express. I barely had enough time to
jump back on the train Id left, but I was awfully thankful.
All coincidences?
Given
the time and space, I could give you quite a few more examples.
Perhaps they
are all coincidence. Id prefer to think that every time we experience some
out-of-the-ordinary kindness from a stranger, were being touched by an angel.
More
importantly; every moment we act with such kindness to strangers, we become messengers
of God.
You guessed it...Angels!
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Earlier
articles:
Right
and Privilege
Monday,
Labor Day, seven o'clock in the morning; the streets of downtown Clayton were
deserted as I drove south on Brentwood after dropping my son off at his early
morning football practice. I waited for the green arrow at the traffic light right
opposite the Clayton Swimming Pool to make the left turn onto Bonhomme. The regular
light was green, but the sign clearly read Left turn on green arrow only.
I
waited; not a single car was coming up the street in the opposite direction. I
waited some more as the light went through its cycle, turning red in my direction
and green for any traffic that might want to make the turn from Bonhomme onto
Brentwood; still not a single car. Then, finally, I got the green arrow and made
the turn.
In
my head I was asking myself, Am I being ridiculous? There isn't another moving
vehicle to be seen, and here you are, waiting at a stoplight, refusing to make
a perfectly safe move, simply because a sign is telling you you aren't allowed
to go!
I
pondered about the amazing way that a social contract can operate. I felt duty
bound to observe a traffic ordinance - even in this unlikely situation - as an
acknowledgment of my license to drive - not my right to drive.
Contrast
this to a very different set of streets, in Bogot, Colombia. Here people
quite literally take their lives into their hands every time they get into a car.
Here one comes across a sign that reads, ÒPlease obey the traffic signs.(I
always wondered why people who didn't care to observe traffic signs would observe
this sign!) Is driving here a right or a privilege?
It
all boils down to this: Is Life a right or a privilege?
If
it's a right, then I suppose we can be justified milking it with everything in
our power. If it's a privilege, then we bear a responsibility to earn that privilege;
to play by the rules.
Considering
Life a privilege is a matter of conscience and consciousness: of discovering what's
right and wrong; of studying the past and learning from our own experiences, and
acting accordingly. For this we have a Tradition - a Torah - to give us a sense
of our greater responsibility and to help us learn from our past.
How
we respond defines who we are as human beings.
It
remains a privilege to serve you!